“How to ask for what you want without seeming demanding or too kinky?”
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March 25, 2013
“When starting a sentimental/emotional relationship, how should one address the sex issue, considering this topic has never been touched in conversation? sex issue:having any type of sexual interaction.”
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March 25, 2013
“How to come up with new ideas with your partner after pleasing each other with their fantasies and desires.”
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Monday, November 26, 2012
“Is it common to spend time thinking about what sort of “dirty talk” to use prior to sex?”
Monday, November 26, 2012
“I often feel like trying to talk dirty just ends up feeling fake – how can I make it feel more genuine?”
TOP VOTED: “”How can I encourage someone who doesn’t want to talk dirty to do it when I need it?” “
Sexuality consultant, Melanie Davis, answers What They Are Asking’s top-voted question for the week of October 1, 2012: “How can I encourage someone who doesn’t want to talk dirty to do it when I need it?”
Monday, September 10, 2012
“How can I encourage someone who doesn’t want to talk dirty to do it when I need it?”
Monday, August 20, 2012
“What do you do when your dirty talk has had the opposite effect?”
Monday, July 30, 2012
“What’s the best/least aversive way to guage/indoctrinate a new or old partner into more heavy dirty talk?”
Monday, July 23, 2012
“How can one engage in dirty talk if your first impulse is to laugh at how silly you sound? What role does humor have in dirty talk, if any?”
Monday, July 2, 2012
“What is an appropriate way to introduce some dirty talk into a new relationship? Can you just go for it, or should you talk through it first? How do you backpedal if you fear you have offended?”
Monday, July 2, 2012
“When/how do you initiate dirty talk and how can you incorporate it into sex in the least awkward way possible? Suggestions?”
Monday, June 11, 2012
“For me it can be hard to verbalize from subspace – how does one stay present enough to dirty talk while enjoying that headspace?”
Monday, June 4, 2012
“How do you recommend dealing with guilt or discomfort if something potentially offensive or politically incorrect comes up? Should we feel guilty about any aspect of our libidos?”
Morning: Sunday, Mar. 4, 2012
!["Developing scenarios – some of the dirty talk I engage in [is] storytelling. Does this happen to you?"](http://whattheyareasking.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/Is-this-normal-dirty-talk-storytelling.jpg "Is this normal, dirty talk, storytelling")
“Developing scenarios – some of the dirty talk I engage in [is] storytelling. Does this happen to you?”
Afternoon: Friday, Mar. 2, 2012
“Are there different styles of dirty talk?”
Morning: Thursday, Mar. 1, 2012
“Do you have any ideas about quick(er) recovery schemes if you dirty talk some words which hit a nerve in a bad way (unintentional) during a scene?”
Morning: Monday, Feb. 27, 2012
“Is it common to spend time thinking about what sort of “dirty talk” to use prior to sex?”
Afternoon: Thursday, Feb. 23, 2012
“If you are a submissive, how do you encourage a dominant to talk more if you absolutely love it?”
Evening: Wednesday, Feb. 22, 2012
“What’s a loving way to tell someone their dirty talk isn’t working for you?”
