“How to ask for what you want without seeming demanding or too kinky?”
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March 25, 2013
“I know it’s personal & extremely subjective, but generally speaking, what’s the best way / the key for a female to orgasm?”
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March 25, 2013
“When starting a sentimental/emotional relationship, how should one address the sex issue, considering this topic has never been touched in conversation? sex issue:having any type of sexual interaction.”
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Monday, December 10, 2012
“How do you bring up kinks with a sex partner?”
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Monday, November 19, 2012
“How does one safely determine their pain threshold BEFORE attempting a scene?”
Monday, November 19, 2012
“How prevalent is “strangulation” with orgasm?”
TOP VOTED: “What is the appeal of humiliation on a psychological level?”
Sex educator and speaker, Kali Williams, answers What They Are Asking’s top-voted question for the week of November 5, 2012: “What is the appeal of humiliation on a psychological level?”
TOP VOTED: “How do I share my porn preferences with my long time girlfriend?”
Author and sex educator, Sinclair Sexsmith, answers What They Are Asking’s top-voted question for the week of October 15, 2012: “How do I share my porn preferences with my long time girlfriend?”
Monday, October 15, 2012
“What if I have a pregnancy fetish, but don’t want my girlfriend to actually be pregnant?”
Monday, October 15, 2012
“What is the appeal of humiliation on a psychological level?”
Monday, October 1, 2012
“A non-threatening way to bring up fantasies with a partner. Thanks!”
Monday, September 10, 2012
“How can I encourage someone who doesn’t want to talk dirty to do it when I need it?”
TOP VOTED: “Not so much a question – but something I’m exploring is gender i.d./roles and dominance vs. submission — and the intersection thereof. Can you comment on your experience w/ that?”
Sexuality Educator, Sinclair Sexsmith, answers What They Are Asking’s top voted question for the week of August 13, 2012: “Not so much a question – but something I’m exploring is gender i.d./roles and dominance vs. submission — and the intersection thereof. Can you comment on your experience w/ that?”
Monday, September 3, 2012
“What does ‘daddy’ have to do with the cultural model of a father? If so sucks – and is that what’s kinky? Or is it replacing what was missing?”
Monday, September 3, 2012
“What’s the best way to improvise during a scene? i.e. I’m on a smack talk roll & run out of smack”
Monday, September 3, 2012
“How do I attract a Daddy without always showing up as a little girl? How do I know/recognize a daddy vs just a dominant?”
Monday, August 27, 2012
“What is your personal distinction between Daddy/Girl and age play – is it the age (usually tween or younger) assumed in age play or is it something different?”
Monday, August 20, 2012
“How does a genderqueer dynamic thrive in a power exchange with such binary labels? i.e. ‘good girl,’ ‘good boi,’ ‘good ____’?”
