April 8, 2013

April 8, 2013

“(1) How/when do you disclose things about yourself (for example being trans) before sex in a non-awkward way?
(2) How do you have good quickies?”

April 8, 2013

April 1, 2013

“Oral sex–is it necessary + expected to give after having received? Is there a chance of getting pregnant if no sex actually happens but there are touching/rubbing ‘parts’?”

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April 8, 2013

April 8, 2013

“Do I have to kiss a girl to know for sure I’m bisexual?”

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April 1, 2013

April 1, 2013

“Does ‘lesbian bed death’ exist? What is it?”

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April 1, 2013

April 1, 2013

“How can I make my first time hurt less?”

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April 1, 2013

April 1, 2013

“How to ask for what you want without seeming demanding or too kinky?”

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March 25, 2013

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“When starting a sentimental/emotional relationship, how should one address the sex issue, considering this topic has never been touched in conversation? sex issue:having any type of sexual interaction.”

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March 25, 2013

March 25, 2013

“How to come up with new ideas with your partner after pleasing each other with their fantasies and desires.”

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March 18, 2013

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“Is it normal to cry after sex?”

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March 11, 2013

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“How do I get people to have sex with me?”

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Monday, December 10, 2012

"At what point do you intervene in someone else's sexual relationship if it seems harmful?"

“At what point do you intervene in someone else’s sexual relationship if it seems harmful?”

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TOP VOTED: What if you shut down or feel detached during intercourse? How do you get back into it? How do you stay in the moment?

Author and sex educator, Sinclair Sexsmith, answers What They Are Asking’s top-voted question for the week of December 3, 2012: “What if you shut down or feel detached during intercourse? How do you get back into it? How do you stay in the moment?”

TOP VOTED: “How do I learn to relax and ‘enjoy’ being with a new partner?”

Sexuality consultant, Melanie Davis, answers What They Are Asking’s top-voted question for the week of November 19, 2012: “How do I learn to relax and ‘enjoy’ being with a new partner?”

Monday, November 19, 2012

"How can I ask my partner to watch porn with me without either or us feeling awkward about it?"

“How can I ask my partner to watch porn with me without either or us feeling awkward about it?”

TOP VOTED: “How can you tell your partner that you are transgender without it being weird?”

Sex educator and sexologist, Shanna Katz, answers What They Are Asking’s top-voted question for the week of November 12, 2012: “How can you tell your partner that you are transgender without it being weird?”

Monday, November 12, 2012

"Is it a bad idea to have sex with a friend with whom you are not in a relationship"

“Is it a bad idea to have sex with a friend with whom you are not in a relationship”

Monday, November 12, 2012

"What if you shut down or feel detached during intercourse? How do you get back into it? How do you stay in the moment?"

“What if you shut down or feel detached during intercourse? How do you get back into it? How do you stay in the moment?”

Monday, October 29, 2012

"My boyfriend doesn't really know how to "set the mood" and keep it intimate. Help?!"

“My boyfriend doesn’t really know how to “set the mood” and keep it intimate. Help?!”

Monday, October 15, 2012

"Do you think that sexual intimacy should be coupled with emotional intimacy?"

“Do you think that sexual intimacy should be coupled with emotional intimacy?”

TOP VOTED: “Is it silly to try and make a long distance (2000 mile) relationship work for 4 years of college?”

Sex and relationship expert, Reid Mihalko, answers What They Are Asking’s top-voted question for the week of October 8, 2012: “Is it silly to try and make a long distance (2000 mile) relationship work for 4 years of college?”