“(1) How/when do you disclose things about yourself (for example being trans) before sex in a non-awkward way?
(2) How do you have good quickies?”
April 8, 2013
Monday, December 10, 2012
“What are some non-chemical (holistic) ways to deal with low testosterone?”
2 VotesVote for this question
Monday, December 3, 2012
“What do you do if you’re not attracted to a female, but only like to have sex with them?”
Monday, November 19, 2012
“What is intersex? How does being intersex affect ability to have sex? How can I be sensitive to these topics as an educator?”
TOP VOTED: “Not so much a question – but something I’m exploring is gender i.d./roles and dominance vs. submission — and the intersection thereof. Can you comment on your experience w/ that?”
Sexuality Educator, Sinclair Sexsmith, answers What They Are Asking’s top voted question for the week of August 13, 2012: “Not so much a question – but something I’m exploring is gender i.d./roles and dominance vs. submission — and the intersection thereof. Can you comment on your experience w/ that?”
Monday, August 6, 2012
“Could you talk about trans FTM fucking cis guys?”
Monday, August 6, 2012
“What do you think is the place & function of butch in today’s society (including subcultural society)? What would you say to the claims that it’s outdated/irrelevant?”
Monday, August 6, 2012
“Being (a butch) in bed… have a confusing relationship with mah boobies… but the girl I’m sleeping with LOVES them… I don’t.. what do I do? When she wants to take my bra off I feel nervous (thereby making me less top confident)”
Monday, July 30, 2012
“Do you see gender-neutral pronouns catching on? Do you thing ‘they/them’ is more likely to come into common usage than ey/eir, ze/zir, etc?”
Monday, July 30, 2012
“Labels are limiting to me! but I feel pressure when the other queers have like 5 words for their gender. It’s more liberating to me to keep it at ‘gay’ ‘female’ ‘queer’ and be able to express diff parts of myself”
Monday, July 9, 2012
“Are there words more common for the transgender, poly, or queer identified? Is there a special vocabulary?”
Evening: Saturday, Mar. 3, 2012
“How do you think about/work with fluid sexuality(ies)?”
Morning: Wednesday, Feb. 29, 2012
“Are there more than two genders? How do we solve the problem of recognizing only two as valid?”
Morning: Sunday, February 26, 2012
“How does sexual experience impact gender identity development?”
Evening: Tuesday, Feb. 14, 2012
“What do we do about the ‘bathroom problem’ – I was taught that you use the bathroom of the gender you are currently presenting…but that can pose problems too if you identify as F but present in a masculine/male way and vice versa?!”
Evening: Thursday, Feb. 9, 2012
“I am often concerned that my ‘female’ gender traits are hurting my chances to succeed, but they make up who I am. Should one change the way they act or change the way society views those actions?”
Morning: Thursday, Feb. 9, 2012
“Are there more than two genders? How do we solve the problem of recognizing only two as valid?”
