TOP VOTED: “I have problems getting wet, how do I fix that?”


Sexologist and sex educator, Lanae St. John a.k.a The MamaSutra, answers What They Are Asking’s top-voted question for the week of March 11, 2013: “I have problems getting wet, how do I fix that?”

TOP VOTED: “My partner enjoys my blow jobs, but he does not come. Is this bad? How can I improve?”

Sex and relationship expert Reid Mihalko answers What They Are Asking’s top-voted question for the week of December 10, 2012: “My partner enjoys my blow jobs, but he does not come. Is this bad? How can I improve?”

TOP VOTED: What if you shut down or feel detached during intercourse? How do you get back into it? How do you stay in the moment?

Author and sex educator, Sinclair Sexsmith, answers What They Are Asking’s top-voted question for the week of December 3, 2012: “What if you shut down or feel detached during intercourse? How do you get back into it? How do you stay in the moment?”

TOP VOTED: “I was told I am too fat for birth control. What ARE my options?”

Sexologist and sex educator, Lanae St. John a.k.a The MamaSutra, answers What They Are Asking’s top-voted question for the week of November 26, 2012: “I was told I am too fat for birth control. What ARE my options?”

TOP VOTED: “How do I learn to relax and ‘enjoy’ being with a new partner?”

Sexuality consultant, Melanie Davis, answers What They Are Asking’s top-voted question for the week of November 19, 2012: “How do I learn to relax and ‘enjoy’ being with a new partner?”

TOP VOTED: “How can you tell your partner that you are transgender without it being weird?”

Sex educator and sexologist, Shanna Katz, answers What They Are Asking’s top-voted question for the week of November 12, 2012: “How can you tell your partner that you are transgender without it being weird?”

TOP VOTED: “What is the appeal of humiliation on a psychological level?”

Sex educator and speaker, Kali Williams, answers What They Are Asking’s top-voted question for the week of November 5, 2012: “What is the appeal of humiliation on a psychological level?”

TOP VOTED: My partner has an especially large penis, and I have a relatively small mouth. We both love when I give him blow jobs, but I’d like to know any tips to be able to fit more of him in my mouth.”

Sexologist and sex educator, Lanae St. John, answers What They Are Asking’s top-voted question for the week of October 22, 2012: “My partner has an especially large penis, and I have a relatively small mouth. We both love when I give him blow jobs, but I’d like to know any tips to be able to fit more of him in my mouth.”

TOP VOTED: “How do I share my porn preferences with my long time girlfriend?”

Author and sex educator, Sinclair Sexsmith, answers What They Are Asking’s top-voted question for the week of October 15, 2012: “How do I share my porn preferences with my long time girlfriend?”

TOP VOTED: “Is it silly to try and make a long distance (2000 mile) relationship work for 4 years of college?”

Sex and relationship expert, Reid Mihalko, answers What They Are Asking’s top-voted question for the week of October 8, 2012: “Is it silly to try and make a long distance (2000 mile) relationship work for 4 years of college?”

TOP VOTED: “”How can I encourage someone who doesn’t want to talk dirty to do it when I need it?” “

Sexuality consultant, Melanie Davis, answers What They Are Asking’s top-voted question for the week of October 1, 2012: “How can I encourage someone who doesn’t want to talk dirty to do it when I need it?”

TOP VOTED: “If you could design a ‘daddy’ or ‘mommy’ training course, what are two or three concepts you would cover?”

Sexuality Educator, Shanna Katz, answers What They Are Asking top-voted question for the week of September 24, 2012: “If you could design a ‘daddy’ or ‘mommy’ training course, what are two or three concepts you would cover?”

TOP VOTED: “What are some questions to ask of play partners?”

Sexuality Educator, Princess Kali from The Kink Academy, answers What They Are Asking top-voted question for the week of September 17th, 2012: “What are some questions to ask of play partners?”

TOP VOTED: “Please speak freely on the PHILOSOPHICAL and/or SPIRITUAL aspects of strap-on sex”

Sexuality Educator, Sinclair Sexsmith, answers What They Are Asking’s top voted question for the week of August 20, 2012: “Please speak freely on the PHILOSOPHICAL and/or SPIRITUAL aspects of strap-on sex”

TOP VOTED: “Not so much a question – but something I’m exploring is gender i.d./roles and dominance vs. submission — and the intersection thereof. Can you comment on your experience w/ that?”


Sexuality Educator, Sinclair Sexsmith, answers What They Are Asking’s top voted question for the week of August 13, 2012: “Not so much a question – but something I’m exploring is gender i.d./roles and dominance vs. submission — and the intersection thereof. Can you comment on your experience w/ that?”

TOP VOTED: “What is the best position (for the woman’s pleasure) to have anal sex in?”

Sexuality Educator and relationship expert, Reid Mihalko, answers What They Are Asking’s top voted question for the week of August 6, 2012: “What is the best position (for the woman’s pleasure) to have anal sex in?”

TOP VOTED: “How do you build up your endurance?”

Sexuality Educator, Melanie Davis, PhD, answers What They Are Asking’s top voted question for the week of July 23, 2012: “How do you build up your endurance?”

TOP VOTED: “How do you gain ‘sensitivity’ in your cock?”

Sexuality Educator and relationship expert, Reid Mihalko, answers What They Are Asking’s top voted question for the week of July 16, 2012: “How do you gain ‘sensitivity’ in your cock?”

TOP VOTED: How important is changing positions during sex?

Sexuality Educator, Melanie Davis, PhD, answers What They Are Asking’s top voted question for the week of July 2, 2012: “How important is changing positions during sex?”

TOP VOTED: “What are some good standbys — topics you can bring up whenever there’s a lull in the dialog which needs to be filled?”

Sexuality Educator and relationship expert, Reid Mihalko, answers What They Are Asking’s top voted question for the week of June 25, 2012: “What are some good standbys — topics you can bring up whenever there’s a lull in the dialog which needs to be filled?”