TOP VOTED: “I have problems getting wet, how do I fix that?”


Sexologist and sex educator, Lanae St. John a.k.a The MamaSutra, answers What They Are Asking’s top-voted question for the week of March 11, 2013: “I have problems getting wet, how do I fix that?”

April 8, 2013

April 8, 2013

“(1) How/when do you disclose things about yourself (for example being trans) before sex in a non-awkward way?
(2) How do you have good quickies?”

April 8, 2013

April 1, 2013

“Oral sex–is it necessary + expected to give after having received? Is there a chance of getting pregnant if no sex actually happens but there are touching/rubbing ‘parts’?”

1 VotesVote for this question

April 8, 2013

April 8, 2013

“Do I have to kiss a girl to know for sure I’m bisexual?”

3 VotesVote for this question

April 8, 2013

April 8, 2013

“What is the history of punishing sexual behaviors in the justice system?”

0 VotesVote for this question

April 1, 2013

April 1, 2013

“Is it possible for me to gush without having orgasmed? Could it actually just be urine? The smell is reminiscent of urine.”

1 VotesVote for this question

April 1, 2013

April 1, 2013

“How can I maximize my pleasure from an orgasm?”

2 VotesVote for this question

April 1, 2013

April 1, 2013

“Does ‘lesbian bed death’ exist? What is it?”

1 VotesVote for this question

April 1, 2013

April 1, 2013

“How can I make my first time hurt less?”

1 VotesVote for this question

April 1, 2013

April 1, 2013

“Are dental dams really necessary during oral sex?”

3 VotesVote for this question

April 1, 2013

April 1, 2013

“How does a girl orgasm?”

1 VotesVote for this question

April 1, 2013

April 1, 2013

“What’s up w/ the g-spot?…what is it?”

1 VotesVote for this question

April 1, 2013

April 1, 2013

“Does using a vibrator make it harder to have?”

0 VotesVote for this question

April 1, 2013

April 1, 2013

“How to ask for what you want without seeming demanding or too kinky?”

1 VotesVote for this question

March 25, 2013

March 25, 2013

“My doctors explained to me that the pressure sensation I feel when I’m approaching climax is contractions and they are supposed to happen, but I can’t help but feel scared that I might pee since that’s what the sensation feels like to me–how do I make sure I don’t pee?!”

1 VotesVote for this question

March 25, 2013

March 25, 2013

“How can i get prostate play to be more playful?”

2 VotesVote for this question

March 25, 2013

 

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“Where can I buy good toys?”

0 VotesVote for this question

March 25, 2013

March 25, 2013

“I know it’s personal & extremely subjective, but generally speaking, what’s the best way / the key for a female to orgasm?”

0 VotesVote for this question

March 25, 2013

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“What is the place called between a male’s anus/testicle area? I heard it’s super sensitive & can help them orgasm.”

1 VotesVote for this question

March 25, 2013

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“Is the prostate really that pleasurable?”

3 VotesVote for this question